Be a better Girlfriend 1

4 Oct

Dear girls, this week girly editor give you tips on becoming a better girlfriend/wife. We know that you have read a lot of these but did you really give some thoughts on it? And it s never bad to recap as we will take things for granted along our way…So here’s how:

1. Respect

As much as you would like to be his everything and centre of attraction, respect his interest. Respect his interests and topics of conversation. You don’t have to act like you love his hobbies, but at least try to understand why he’s such a fan. If he loves cars, soccer and gadgets, understand why. If he just loves to be playful and immature, remember that it might just be his way of releasing stress.

Girly: This is exactly like how we girls get excited over make-ups and stuffs!

2. Be yourself

Never lie to impress him, don’t try to make him jealous, and don’t lead him on if you’re not into everything. Those things are wrong, and if you feel the need to do that then you don’t know the meaning of a true relationship. Be honest and open with him. If the two of you are mature then you will handle it correctly.

Remember girls, you don’t have to fulfill every trait on his dream girl checklist as no one is perfect. If he’s dating you he obviously thinks you’re attractive.

Girly’s Favorite Quote: He will love you for who you are and not what he wants you to be.

3. Trust

Don’t forget that he has a life of his own. Just because he didn’t call you back for 10 minutes don’t mean he’s been cheating. You cannot be his one and only focus all the time.

Your relationship will be a miserable one if you have no trust in him and you are constantly in the suspicion state of mind.

Lastly, trust yourself, trust that you are the only one for him because of who you are.

 4. Be pretty

Continue to doll up even though it’s been long since your first date. Make him feel that you are still putting in effort and looking forward to dates with him. You don’t have to be as hot as Jessica Alba to make him feel proud of having you around.

5. Be Independent

If you feel entitled to all of his time and attention, learn how to not be an obsessive girlfriend. Don’t be an “over protective girlfriend” let him go out without him feeling watched. Remember that he doesn’t need you for everything and that you are separate people as well as a couple. When he needs some space, don’t take it personally.

But do make sure he will always be there for you when you need him.

6. Listen to yourself

Don’t let your friends try to manage your relationship. It’s your relationship and no one else’s. You don’t have to listen to every piece of advice from your friends if you don’t want to.

7. Save up on that jealousy

Jealousy is a very dangerous thing. Don’t intentionally make him jealous. That will result with a lot of problems and difficulties within your relationship.

Similarly, don’t get jealous over every little thing. Be more open on things like him making conversation with girls or studying with a school mate.

8. Say it!

In any healthy relationship, you will have your share of conflicts, some tiny, some big. Remember to be true to yourself and try to abandon any significant selfishness. A relationship is a matter of teamwork and a symbiotic relationship, not a parasitic one, where a party gives and the other one just takes without giving enough back.

We do not expect things to change in a wink of an eye as everything take time. Especially in a relationship, everything takes two hands to clap, everything have to be mutal… to be able to appreciate.

In the next post, girly editor will explore simple things that girls can do to surprise your special someone!

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